Confidence is what makes a girl sexy! You don't have to be the most gorgeous girl in the room, all that matters is that you believe you are. And you will attract those that agree with you.

This Valentine's Day has me thinking about all the love in the world, but none is more important than the love for yourself. This year, you should give yourself chocolate and roses for just being you, the most sexy confident version of you!



I treat myself everyday with little mental "love me notes" just to thrill my inner vixen. Maybe something a little naughty, like a thought about where I would love to "have" my husband. It's my flirty little secret that is boosting my confidence everyday. Try this and see what happens!



Booty Parlor Parties is featuring the new "How to Love Like a Hot Chick" book for Valentine's Day this year, and it's full of great tips to spice up your mojo. Check it out at www.bootyparlorparties.com/valerie and shop discreetly for some fun treats for yourself this February.



Our products have been featured on the Today Show and February 13th on the Tyra Banks Show! The Turn Me on Vibrating Panties will be shown as a sexy bedroom accessory sure to please everyone. Lots more fun to come!



So give yourself a gift of some sexy confidence and watch what happens! Go get 'em girl!

Welcome to my new Blog!

So I decided to get in on the Internet thing a little more and blog about my life as a mom, hairstylist, and home party plan rep for Booty Parlor Parties. I have always been interested in helping women feel beautiful and have more confidence, and in my thirties, I think I am realizing what that actually means.

Why did that take so long?!

So my plan here is to explore for myself what having "sexy confidence" can mean for myself and my readers. May not be all about the bedroom, feeling sexy and confident can spill over into other areas of your personal and professional life. Whether we like it or not, Sex Sells.....anything. From your personality to a new car. Any size or shape can exude sexual confidence. Mostly I think women can be fascinated with other women on this topic. Think of "When Harry Met Sally" the quote "I'll have what she's having." after the fabulously faked orgasm. Women want what other women are having, and if that means more sex, then we WANT it. Or at least creating the attitude of feeling confident about ourselves and our lives, in or out of the bedroom. Some women never feel that fulfilled power in their lives. Let's try to get there together. Just like a good orgasm, it comes from the inside, out!

Mostly what has put me in this frame of mind is my new party plan business, Booty Parlor Parties. We are a fabulous sexy shopping experience with designer sex toys and flirty body treats. What a different brand this is...softly selling sexy confidence! Not in your face sex, but we can do that too if you want! Ultimately I want all my hostesses and customers to have a sexy attitude that they can bring into other aspects of their lives. Check it out when you have some time!

I have great beauty tips from the salon that I always love to share and of course, some sexy bedroom tips and challenges for us to explore together. Always welcoming ideas and requests! Thanks!